🟥 Part One: The FN Card – How It Started
I didn’t expect a backstage pass would cost me $200. I thought it was something real, something tied to his celebrity world, a way for us to finally meet in person. It was called the “FN Card.” It felt official. Exclusive. But it came out of nowhere. No warning, no buildup. Just... dropped into conversation like it was normal.
I didn't question it at first. Not because I was naive, because I trusted him.
🔹 📸 The Ask
I was doing emotional math in real time. “If I do this for him, maybe it means something. Maybe he’ll really come.” I kept telling myself I was helping, not being used. Everyone wants to meet the person face to face, when you're in a long distance relationship. My hope was to meet the man in person. The man I was learning and getting to know.
🔹 📸 Involving the Manager
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🔹 Preparing For The FN Card
Processing The FN Card
Needless to say, I never received the FN Card because the money was never received on their end, even though I sent it. That broke my heart. I didn't get what I paid for, to go see a man I wanted to meet. Not because of who he was, I didn't know he was a musician until he told me. Never heard of him before. I wanted to meet the man I was liking. I was really liking him as a person. I was told I would receive a refund, but I didn't get that either.
Not long after, he brought up his daughter's school fees and another card. This time it was the Visitor’s Card. A new excuse. A new emotional ask. He made me believe he was already in Detroit. I tried to activate the card so we could meet in person. But it was another trap, another manipulated moment dressed in urgency.
