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Why I Am Celibate

                                               

I first wrote this piece in 2017. Eight years later, its truth still holds: celibacy isn’t about denial, it’s about protection, reflection, and honoring your energy until love shows up in its highest form. My journey has changed, but this message remains.

Celibacy is nothing new to me. I consider it almost like a partner in itself.  But there are times when being celibate gives me the blues and I just want to fulfill that urge, and then I then I look out into the world and go, naw I'm good.  Celibacy for me started after I was married to my first husband.  It was my way to reflect on the relationship that I just got out of. Then two years later I met someone else and ended up marrying him. Mind you I was a practicing Muslim at that time, and the Sisters I hung around where older than I were. They were mother figures to me. I was just in my early 20's when I embraced this religion.  So, it was taught that a woman should not be without a husband for a long time, and that she should not have sex outside being married or not married, and that she should be married. To sum up the number of times I was married, it was four, and only in one of those marriages did I have a beautiful girl.

Anyways, the space I gave myself between those four marriages to breathe and reflect was two years before I would meet the next one and then get married.  After, the fourth marriage, being Muslim was a wrap for me because his behavior was the one that really woke me up and scared me, being that I had a young baby girl at the time.  A year after him I walked away from it all, so you think since I made myself free I would have a ball and go to town with my social life since I missed eight years of it I would be just out here doing my thing, but I wasn't.  It didn't hold anything special for me before Islam and it didn't hold anything special for me after I left.

It would be 8 years later when I would meet someone and it only lasted two months even though it felt like a year. Really it did.  It meant he wasn't supposed to be in my cipher or we were just cleaning up some old past life junk.  I would then learn from a friend of mines, who is into Metaphysics, that when two people have sex they are also merging together as one spiritually, which then makes them married to one another, spiritually. I'm sitting there thinking, "oh my goodness there are some people I don't even want to be married to spiritually let alone physically  any longer. My goodness." I did end up saying this to him, and he laughed at me.  I was serious.  I would then do study on my own to learn more about this, because there was other reasons behind why I chose to be Celibate but wasn't understanding why.  

I ended up meeting a beautiful guy in 2015 that only ended up lasting a year, because all he wanted to do was party and hang out, and I'm not going to throw him under the bus because his spirit was beautiful. He just wasn't ready to be with me yet.  Sex is a beautiful thing, but after you've been around them for a while will make you think, "why did I have sex with this person."  Then you feel like you're stuck.  Sex is more so a spiritual connection to another person. It's more than just two bodies creating friction off of one another. It's a body, spirit connection, so guys everything you feel or think while having sex with a woman, you transfer those feelings to her, so don't be surprised when she comes back at you down the road cussing you out or mentally thinking some type of way about you.  Women are natural receivers of energy whether they realize it or not.  Any negative thoughts about her, she is going to pick those up.  If you can't have sex with a woman without having a negative thought then you don't need to have sex with her. How I feel.

For now I'm comfortable with her, and until the right guy shows up with the right energy, and is present in the here and now of our relationship, and is not broken looking for somebody to heal and fix him up, 'cause that was the past narrative of men in my life that I no longer accept, then I will be waiting for him to show up.  It's about truly loving yourself. Sometimes that love you give to others needs to be held on for yourself, because no one can love you like you love you.  Everybody that comes into your life is just an add-on. When a person leaves you, you have to be comfortable in your space to be okay with the fact that no one else is there but you. It's Okay to miss people when they decide its not working because that's part of the healing process. That's time for you reflect on what happened and how you can better improve on yourself. I've learned everybody in your life is there to teach you something.  So, in your line of relationships past and present, intimate or not, what have you learned about yourself from dealing with other people because this is how you grow as an individual. That's what relationships are growing as a couple together but still checking in to see how you've grown as an individual.

So, why am I Celibate? Because I seeing what I see I don't want to deal with it in my cipher which means I need to vibrate a little higher, and I don't want to spiritually have anyone her who is just going to be a parasite. I've had those too. It's not about merely having someone here, because someone who is here can be like a lump sitting on a log.  I want more and I understand what my more is.

Become an Herbalist

I have been interested lately in learning more about Wholistic living. This one I found deals with learning about herbs and how to use them.  The Herbal Academy has four courses that you can choose from:

Introductory Herbal Course which gives you the basics to begin your journey.

Intermediate Herbal Course for those with a little knowledge but now your ready to learn more

Entrepreneur Herbal Course for those who have learned about Herbalism and now are ready to start a business

Advanced Herbal Course for those who are making this as a Career as a Professional Practitioner.

They are now offering a special class on herbal fermentation. 

I hope that you will join me as I take this journey and if you are interested in learning more that you check out the Herbal Academy.

Creatures Emerging From the Deep

About 5 months ago I was listening to a blogtalk radio podcast. On this podcast a woman by the name of Latoya "Jedi" Jackson was saying how there were young Caucasian males who were using there sperm to create creatures, and then letting them free into nature. Some of these creatures are in the ocean.  She also said that because of the radiation still flowing from Fukoshimu that it was mutating some of the sea creatures.


Well about two days ago unexpectedly I came upon a video of a person who used his sperm and the embryo of a chickens egg to create something.

I have also been coming across articles of unidentified types of creatures washing a shore in different countries. So, it's not just Scientist creating clones and other creatures like in the movie Island of Dr. Moreau. The other factors is males using there own sperm to create creatures.

Mysteries hairy Creature Washes up on Philippines Beach

What Is The Monster Like Creature That Washed Up on S. Carolina Beach?

Sea Creatures Shock beach Goers in Oregan and Washington

Thousands of These bizarre Blue Animals Wash Up on California Shores

Mystery as giant grey sea creature washes up on Australian beach

Then there is also the unexplored depths of the ocean that no one or machine has explored. So, that brings up the question what is happening in the oceans to have animals beach as well as bring unidentified type creatures to the surface.


Creature recently beached in Philippines Feb. 2017

Oarfish

                                                   HumpBack Whale

2017 #PIZZAGATE INSANE NEW EVIDENCE! UK GOVERNMENT CHILD ABUSE RING EXPO...

Like I said, May it all get cleaned up.

California #Pizzagate 474 Arrests Made As Global Pedo Rings Are Exposed

For those that felt that this was a joke or what thy are now claiming as "fake news", here is real press conference footage from California.  What you must understand is that "pizzagate" is not new. This goes back decades, and happens all over the world.  We have had Governement, Senate, Law Enforcement, CPS, and others who have long done this.  There are Government officials who would go down to South America to indulge in this sick behavior with young children.  May it all get cleaned up.

Daycare asks Parents to Get off your phone!

Today I found this article on yahoo about a Daycare who posted on their doors a notice telling parents to put down your phone when picking up your child.   Let me give this center a round of applause.  Why? Because I speak this as a mother and a teacher who once worked in Daycare.  As a daycare teacher this notice was more likely for those parents who constantly walk into the building every single day talking on their phone. It wasn't for the ones who every now and again may do this, but the ones who EVERY DAY Morning and Evening dropping off or picking up have that phone glued to their ear.

Could the notice have been said another way? Yes, it could have. The woman who posted the notice that day constantly saw the same behavior with her parents and it drove her crazy, and for her enough was enough, and out of her passion this is what she wrote.  Parents I'm sure did take offense to it, but if the shoe didn't fit why get offended.  

I feel like this...if the call is that important and you can't get off your phone at the moment then sit in your car or stand outside the the daycare doors until you finish your phone call because your child has just been in someone's else's care all day while you were away at work making money to financially support your household.  All your child knows in that moment right then and there is "my mommy is here and I get to go home and spend time with her."   So, they may have created a project they want to show you right then and there before they grab there coat because it was the best project they did and they are so proud of what they created they need to show it off to you like RIGHT NOW.   Your child can can care less about that phone call, they just want your undivided attention so they can tell you what they did, and how much they miss the hell of not seeing until now.

They make like there teacher's because they make them feel safe and they have fun while they are there, but when they see a parents face they drop everything like a microphone on a stage because they just served somebody and now they're leaving the building.  They are happy to see your presence and it means the world to them.  So, if you have that very important phone call that will call your attention more so then your child trying to get your attention to show you  an awesome project they created, or to give you a hug that says I miss you, then take finish that call in the car or stand outside the daycare until you are done.  This is my position.

Below I have left a link to the article as well as posting the article below.

Daycare asks Parents to Get Off Your Phone!

A sign posted at a child’s daycare has touched a nerve as it raises a difficult question: When should parents put down their phones? Or, perhaps it’s gone viral because of the deeper question beneath that one: Who has the right to make any kind of request of parents?

“You are picking up your child! Get off your phone!!!!” reads the sign, posted by parent Juliana Farris Mazurkewicz last Friday. “Your child is happy to see you! Are you happy to see your child?? We have seen children trying to hand their parents their work they completed and the parent is on the phone. We have heard a child say ‘Mommy, mommy, mommy…’ and the parent is paying more attention to their phone than their own child. It is appalling. Get off your phone!!”

 

Posted at the daycare today!

Posted by Juliana Farris Mazurkewicz on Friday, January 27, 2017

As of this writing, the post has received more than 1,600 comments and 320,000 shares. Clearly, people have some thoughts about the matter. On the one hand, there are many who agree:

“Yes. So, so, so sad that the person who they are talking to is more important than their child,” wrote Pat Smart.

“Children grow up so quickly. Make the most of when they are little,” Kim Wilkes said.

“So disgusting that a parent needs to be told to pay attention to their child!” Lynn Marshall commented.

A few agreed while also questioning the harsh manner in which the sign was worded. “I like this a lot, however, I think it would be nice to add a ‘please’ to it,” said Lois Poseno.

Then there was the mind your own business camp.

“Maybe it’s work related,” suggested Eboni Shareece McGill. “I mean they do have to pay for their kids to go to your damn daycare. Maybe it’s family related. Someone tried this at my school when my mom came to pick me up. She cursed them out because they were so in her business that they didn’t know to check to see if everything was okay with my grandpa who was sick in the hospital.”

“Maybe [don’t] judge someone’s whole life from the two minutes a day you see them at pick-up,” Michelle Potter wrote. “You don’t know who they’re talking to or what they’re dealing with. If I’m out of the house and on the phone, 99% of the time I’m talking to one of my kids. Should I not answer their call because YOU might judge me? Yeah, that’s going to happen. Right after I don’t breastfeed my infant because you’d prefer she had a bottle.”

Setting aside the notion of whether daycare providers should be making this judgment, there is certainly a case to be made that eventually, parents should probably put down their phones. A survey of 6,000 children from eight different countries found that 54 percent thought their parents spent too much time on their phones, and 32 percent felt unimportant when their parents were distracted by the devices. Another study in Boston found that caregivers who were absorbed with their phones reacted more harshly to misbehaving children. Cutting back on phone time is easier said than done, however. Researchers from the University of Washington who observed parents in Seattle playgrounds found that 44 percent of them felt that they should restrict their phone use while watching their kids but felt unable to do so.

Regardless of how people respond to this sign, it’s quickly become eligible for the annals of preschool parent outrage — along with the likes of the scary-pants complaint, “non-working parent” discrimination, and the suggestion that a mother to use less coconut oil in her daughter’s hair.