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Wednesday, July 30, 2025

The Introduction & the Card Switch: Part Two The Visitor's Card

                             


                         By D.M. 



Try, Try Again


The FN card didn’t work out. I was told I’d receive a refund, which never came. About a week and a half later, he introduced his daughter. He said he’d already spoken to her about me and that she was eager to meet. I agreed. Within days of that introduction, he gradually began to bring up the idea of a Visitors card.




He just nicely slide that in knowing that I was still open to wanting to meet him.






Here's where he emotionally escalates things by bringing in his daughter-on Valentine's Day.




The next day he asked about the conversation between me an his daughter.





Beautiful girl. We would end up talking every other week. Then in May of 2025, a month before I broke up with him she was no longer online. I noticed her photo had been changed. He ended up telling me that her account was now being managed by her manager.  Broke my heart. He let it slip that she was upset about it too.



Flavour Taking Over The Process

He told me that he spoke to his manager, and that for the Visitors card he would personally be handling the setup for the card, because he wanted to see me.  He was handling because he didn't want any slip ups like before. He needed this to be handled smoothly.


Intro to Visitors Card

       






Flavour Takes Over the Process of the Visitors Card 






He talked to his manager that night and then let me know the following day that he received the form for the Visitors card.




Pre-plans for the Visitors card




Going over what will happen during the process






Visitor Card Starts







Visitors Card Complete



Notice how he wraps up the process, less than four hours from start to finish. This wasn't love. This was logistics disguised as affection.



The Visitors Card 






I gave him the information he needed to feel out the rest of the card. He asked for another picture outside of the one that he was recently sent, and applied it to the card. It took him about 25 minutes to finish this up and  then he sent me my card.  Now that I had this card I was so ready to meet him. We made plans for when he would come and visit me. 


It All Felt Surreal

I got the Visitors card.  Was I ever able to use this card? No. Instead of a genuine effort to connect, he used it as a new avenue for lies, manipulation, and emotional coercion.

I questioned many times while talking to him if I was being used by one his impersonators. At times it felt like it. I asked my ancestors and my higher self through divination tools to see if he was really the real Flavour on the other side of screen that I was communicating with.

Every time I asked I would receive a yes. Every time I asked was I dealing with the imposter I got a no. Every time I asked did he ever, since we started talking, pawn me off to an imposter for just a little while and then return and I received a no.

From my perspective I had the real Chinedu Okoli.  I received videos and photoshoots you could find online, but there were those occasions he would send me pictures that were not circulating online. There were videos that he sent to me before they made it online to the public. So, with all this . This is how I gauged his realness.  No, I didn't get the phone calls every day and night, but I did get some. I mostly received voice messages through Whatsapp. 

When someone claims to love you, they shouldn’t try to control or exploit you. What he did wasn’t love. It was twisted.

To Be Continued...

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