Try, Try Again
The FN card didn’t work out. I was told I’d receive a refund, which never came. About a week and a half later, he introduced his daughter. He said he’d already spoken to her about me and that she was eager to meet. I agreed. Within days of that introduction, he gradually began to bring up the idea of a Visitors card.
The first post I wrote about Flavour was titled, The World Will Be My Witness: My Experience With Flavour, where I posted receipts of how he acted towards me when I no longer wanted to be in his life as his woman.
There was the break-up letter, which he could not accept. I extended my friendship to him, but that was not good enough, and then came the threats. That's when communication was cut. Apps we both used were blocked, and for my protection I posted the documents that I filed against him.
This is the follow-up to Love Bombed, Then Billed. This is what happened after I walked away.
Did Chinedu tell me what he needed to tell me last night? yes
Was it about us getting back together? No
Was it about what his manager said to him? Yes
His manager is watching my page? Yes
His manager is the short stouty guy with the belly? Yes
His manager is sending people to my page? Yes
To my dm's? Yes
His manager told him that lie about me chasing after his friends (Chinedu's) and talking to one of them? Yes
The ones who have been sent to my dm's and I spoke with are all sent by Chinedu's manager? Yes
So, the ones who have spoken to me did they go back and lie about me to the manager? No
Are you (ancestors) taking care of the manager for lying? Yes
Confirmed by dowsing session
After our conversation on TikTok, July 27, 2025, I went and re-blocked his page. I have nothing else to say to him, and I'm tired of the looping in our conversations. To be back in the relationship with him means dealing with his stepping on my boundaries. His emotional and financial manipulation, and his gaslighting.
These are tactics of a narcissist. If you are going through this as a woman you don't have to stay. Scammers prey on low self esteem. This is why they start with the love bombing. It's to make you feel as if your in a safe space, when you're really not.
Flavour was never mines. He felt like it. He had other women that he was talking too, even when he said he wasn't. I did genuinely grow to love this man. Not for what he had, but for the person that I saw. I saw Chinedu the man, when he decided to peek out from behind the scamming, and the love bombing. There were moments when I did genuinely feel his heart through his words. But how do you tell a person you love them, you want to be with them one minute, and you have your hand out running game the next. That's kind of twisted.
These blog post seem to have turned into a series. I don't post for revenge or bitterness. That's not my nature. I post to make other women aware of the game when someone says they're the Nigerian artist Flavour. Just block them all regardless of what social media platform they come through.
For those who have already encountered the real Flavour, or one of his imposters, and got caught in the web of the scam.
May your heart heal.
May you learn to love again.
May you learn to trust again.
May we all receive some form of retribution from him.
But most of all, may you forgive him. Not forget. This forgiveness isn't for him.
It's for you.
Because that's the only way the heart truly heals.
The door is closed. The crown is tilted. And I’ve got nothing left for him but silence.
