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Thursday, September 4, 2025

Update on Flavour’s New Album

 

                           




On June 17, 2025, Flavour did a mini music session on the streets of London. Afterwards the DJ asked what Flavour had in store. Flavour announced the release of a new Album in the Summer of this year. 



August 20, 2025, a video was released with Flavour and Yung Alpha on a new song to be released soon. 




This is a long awaited album. Flavour is deciding to release just a single.  This feels like dangling a carrot when the promise was a full cake.



Flavour then released a video in August of him doing the remake of his song Adamma with the Cavemen as a part of the 15th Anniversary of this song. 


🎊 Congratulations on 15 years



On September 3, 2025. Flavour released a video of a sample of his new song, which sounds good. 



On September 5th, Flavour posted a video of himself in the studio.





As the Fall Solstice approaches on September 24th, we’ll see if the full album arrives as promised.

The Summer isn't over yet. Flavour still has time to present the public with a full album. 

I've always told you I have faith in you.  



Come back here to stay posted.





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Wednesday, August 20, 2025

The Player Getting Played


Back on July 24, 2025, Spirit pressed me to issue a warning about deception. I wrote the piece below and shared it on my Instagram story in hopes that Flavour would see it.

It came through in conjunction with a reading I did around Flavour and a woman connected to his life at that time.

Weeks later, this photo surfaced, Flavour holding his phone and smiling, with Dr. Aduku in the background. On the phone’s screen, a woman’s face can be seen, as if on a video call.




               


This connects back to the warning I was given.

My role is not to investigate or pick apart every detail. My role is to deliver the message when Spirit says to move. This is that message.


     


Here is part of that reading  from, The Women of Flavour, session I did.

*As of June 11, 2025, does Flavour have plans on marrying any woman in the world? Yes

*Is this woman aware of him wanting to marry her? No

*Will it come as a surprise to her? Yes

*Are they talking now?  Yes

*Is it physically? No

*Is it online? No

*Do they talk to each other often? No

*When he proposes to her will she except? No

* Does this woman like him? No

*Is she talking to another person? Yes 

*Does she want to be married to this other person? Yes

* Will Flavour ever get married in this lifetime? No

*Is it because of his behavior? Yes


Spiritual Reading as of August 26, 2025


* Is Flavour currently talking to a woman online? Yes

*Is the woman he's showing in the phone the new woman? Yes

*Did he meet her online? No

*Are they in the same industry? Yes

*Did he meet her on social media? No

*Are they talking through Whatsapp? Yes

*Did they meet through the Whatsapp social media account He created? No

*Is this the woman he bought a green/pink hand bag for? Yes

* Has he been talking to her for a long period of time? No

* Has it been months? Yes.

* a month? No

*Two months? No

*Three months? Yes

*Has he visited physically this woman? No

*Is she serious about him? No

*Is he , Flavour,  serious about only her? No

*So, they're both not serious with esch other? Yes

*This woman Flavour is showing in his phone is she solely a platonic relationship? No

*Does she need a VIP card in order for Her to see him? No

*Is there any type of magic at play here from her end? No

* Are there any other women he's speaking with seriously online? No

*Is she the only woman he's seriously been speaking with? Yes

*Does she reside in the United States? No

* Has Flavour left Nigeria, to go spend time with any other woman in the world? No

*Is she in Canada? Yes

*Has he been to Canada to see her? No

*Is the woman Flavour is speaking with,  speaking with any other man? Yes

* Is she more serious about this other man? Yes

* As of this day, August 26, 2025, is there any woman on the planet who can say they are pregnant with Flavour’s child? No



I release this in spirits hands.



 Featured Post

The $3M Silence: Why Chinedu's Biopic Disappeared

Monday, August 18, 2025

AfroFuture Fesitval 2025

 



This was my first year at AfroFuture this year. I
Enjoyed the atmosphere, music and the food.  My prime reason was to see Flavour perform. I ended up leaving early, so I don't know if he showed up or not right now. These three videos are what I recorded,Saturday and Sunday.






Flavour'snull Album Timeline




Wednesday, August 6, 2025

The Performance of Love: Promises, Pressure, and the Price I Paid

 

                       

                        By D. M.


Shattered Trust

I wanted to believe he was serious. That all the talk about visiting, about the daughters coming, the concert appearances, the "management" and the promises, were real. I gave grace, again and again, until grace started to cost me my peace. Behind every sweet word was a setup. Behind every setup, a request. And behind every request… a lie. This is the unraveling of how it all began to collapse, not just financially, but spiritually and emotionally.

I stayed longer than I should have because I hoped I was wrong. I wasn’t.

Friday, August 1, 2025

The VIP Trap: When a Visit Costs $1,000


By D. M.

 

🧱 Before The Door Slammed Shut

Chinedu {Flavour} coming to visit me didn't work out, and I was so broken and disappointed that he lied to me. We made plans. It wasn't like it was last minute, and he didn't know he was to be here with me. He just knew where else he needed to be, that's all. He didn't have the consideration to let me know. Instead he lied about it.  Thursday of that same week he was to come visit me, I was in my hotel room lying in bed when a notification went off that  the AfroFuture Fesitval was going to happen. I noticed him on the line up, but he never mentioned that he was performing. 


When I asked he says, "I was meaning to tell you about that." Heart still broken. He said if I needed help getting tickets he could help me out. At this point, I didn't want him helping me with anything financial because all he did at this point was take my money and have me hopeful only to bust my bubble and have me falling without a safety net. So, I declined. This is when he told me he had a meeting with his manger and that the Visitors card was now being replaced with the VIP Card. This VIP Card would cost $1,000.

I asked him, "What about the visitors card? Would I be able to see you?"  His response, "Only if you have the VIP Card."  

The VIP Card had now replaced all the priveliges and benefits that the Visitors card had held.  All I saw was my money gone and no hope of ever meeting this man without having this card.  This wasn't a relationship, it was a transactional relationship.  It finally hit me.  I'm genuinely liking and falling for this man, and it's about seeing him, but not without the card.



 



AfroFuture & The VIP Card





This was no longer about Love. It was feeling transactional, and I was the product.




Let Me Come Visit You This Weekend

  
Since I wouldn't give in to getting the VIP Card for the Afro Future Festival he decided to try another means...Let me come see you this weekend.



At this point I became annoyed. I was getting tired of the lies. The emotional manipulation. Just come clean and be honest with it. 






The Private Flight Switch

Since I wouldn't bend the way that he needed me to bend he pulled out a new method to try and turn me...Emotional manipulation.




This wasn't the first time he used the 'bank issue' on me. The first time was with his daughters school fees. 

Here he was using that line back on me again. I was feeling used. 

How does a man who claims to have money move like he’s still in survival mode?
It didn’t add up.

The woman who was in love with him, me, was getting tired of this nonsense. 
Tired of the games.

Tired of being the one carrying the weight while he played helpless.

I was spiraling out and breaking down, but I refused to let him see that. He'd already taken enough. 




Sexual Diffision


I was growing tired of this conversation. I was becoming annoyed and frustrated and I needed to name it what it was out loud. 



By this point, I wasn’t being seduced or swayed,I was tired.
Tired of the blame-shifting.
Tired of the circular arguments.
Tired of hearing “I don’t have money” followed by yet another request for it.

This was my attempt to break the cycle, not deepen it. I wasn’t trying to escalate intimacy, I was trying to de-escalate the drama.

Me: “Look at this point, all I know is that when we do finally get together, we need to hug it out and then go sex it out. We’re both sexually frustrated and need each other.”

It wasn’t lust, it was logic. An attempt at grounding what had become an emotional tug-of-war. I wanted peace, not another plea.


Wednesday, July 30, 2025

Love to See You in Person: The Manipulation Behind the Visit That Never Happened

                                  


                     By Damali M. 

After introducing his daughter and pushing the Visitors card, Chinedu quickly shifted into a new phase of emotional manipulation, this time, wrapped in promises of travel, studio setbacks, and his desire to finally meet me in person. It all sounded promising, but the undercurrent was always the same: another request, another excuse, another delay.


Tuesday, July 29, 2025

After the Goodbye: What He Did After I Walked Away


                          


By D.M

📌


 The first post I wrote about Flavour was titled, The World Will Be My Witness: My Experience With Flavour, where I posted receipts of how he acted towards me when I no longer wanted to be in his life as his woman.   

There was the break-up letter, which he could not accept. I extended my friendship to him, but that was not good enough, and then came the threats. That's when communication was cut. Apps we both used were blocked, and for my protection I posted the documents that I filed against him. 

 This is the follow-up to Love Bombed, Then Billed. This is what happened after I walked away.


📝 The Goodbye He Wouldn’t Accept


June 10, 2025

This was the letter that he could not accept.


📸 You Know Why I’m Back, Right?

I blocked this man after he harassed and threatened me. I was shocked to find him in my dm's today, July 27, 2025.


















I blocked and closed the door on Flavour when he threatened me, so how he got through the block on his page, I really don't know.  

I stayed for as long as I did because he said he had something he needed to tell me. I was looking for an apology. One that I never got and I don't plan to receive it any time in the future unless he truly takes the time to heal himself. 



🧿 The Manager’s Watchful Eye

                                   Chinedu 7/28/25 Session

  • Did Chinedu tell me what he needed to tell me last night? yes

    Was it about us getting back together? No

    Was it about what his manager said to him? Yes


  • His manager is watching my page? Yes


  • His manager is the short stouty guy with the belly? Yes


  • His manager is sending people to my page? Yes


  • To my dm's? Yes


  • His manager told him that lie about me chasing after his friends (Chinedu's) and talking to one of them? Yes


  • The ones who have been sent to my dm's and I spoke with are all sent by Chinedu's  manager? Yes

  • So, the ones who have spoken to me did they go back and lie about me to the manager? No

  • Are you (ancestors) taking care of the manager for lying? Yes

  • Confirmed by dowsing session


🚫 5. Final Closure & Re-block

 After our conversation on TikTok, July 27, 2025,  I went and re-blocked his page. I have nothing else to say to him, and I'm tired of the looping in our conversations.  To be back in the relationship with him means dealing with his stepping on my boundaries. His emotional and financial manipulation, and his gaslighting. 

These are tactics of a narcissist. If you are going through this as a woman you don't have to stay. Scammers  prey on low self esteem. This is why they start with the love bombing. It's to make you feel as if your in a safe space, when you're really not. 

Flavour was never mines. He felt like it. He had other women that he was talking too, even when he said he wasn't. I did genuinely grow to love this man. Not for what he had, but for the person that I saw. I saw Chinedu the man, when he decided to peek out from behind the scamming, and the love bombing. There were moments when I did genuinely feel his heart through his words. But how do you tell a person you love them, you want to be with them one minute, and you have your hand out running game the next. That's kind of twisted.

These blog post seem to have turned into a series. I don't post for revenge or bitterness. That's not my nature. I post to make other women aware of the game when someone says they're the Nigerian artist Flavour.  Just block them all regardless of what social media platform they come through. 

For those who have already encountered the real Flavour, or one of his imposters, and got caught  in the web of the scam. 

May your heart heal. 

May you learn to love again. 

May you learn to trust again.

May we all receive some form of retribution from him. 

But most of all, may you forgive him. Not forget. This forgiveness isn't for him.

 It's for you.

Because that's the only way the heart  truly heals. 


              The door is closed. The crown is tilted. And I’ve got nothing left for him but silence.


To Be Continued here


The World Will Be My Witness

 

                                 


                            By D. M


There are moments when love feels like destiny, until it reveals itself as a lesson.

This is not the story of a bitter woman. This is the story of a woman who loved deeply, who trusted boldly, and who stood firm when the one she loved turned against her.

What began as a cosmic connection ended with a threat.

This is my story.
This is my truth.
And the world will be my witness.

I am writing this not to shame, but to shed light. To protect others. To show what it looks like to love, to lose, and to choose yourself.
To show what it looks like when you finally say, No more.

Below is the breakup letter I sent to the man I once called my person, the one who fumbled me.


Shortly after I sent this letter, Chinedu Okoli, known publicly as Flavour, sent me a direct threat via WhatsApp.

He told me:

"cooperate or be ruined."


When I asked him why he would threaten me, he said,

"Maybe now you know I’m serious."

He was threatening to post the intimate photos I had once sent him privately. He responded to my cease and desist letter by sending three of those personal videos back to me, low blow. A taunt. A reminder of what he believed was his power.

This is revenge porn.

This is harassment.

This is a crime.



Below you’ll see the reported I filed, his TikTok username. For privacy, I’ve blacked out personal phone numbers and my full name.

This is not hearsay. This is documentation. This is truth.

I am documenting everything.

Every message.

Every threat.

Every step I am taking to protect myself.

This blog is part of that documentation. This blog is my witness. And now, you, dear reader, are my witness too.


I have reported him to:

• WhatsApp



• TikTok



• Nigerian Human Rights Commission

Cyber Civil Rights Initiative

There were ancestral layers tied to this connection. I stayed in communication for that work, not for emotional or romantic attachment. The harassment arrived after I had already detached emotionally. I was staying present for completion, not entertainment.

📣 Why I’m Sharing This

Too many women are silenced by men who think they can play with our bodies, our hearts, and our dignity.

Too many women are afraid to speak out because they believe no one will believe them.

I believe you.


If you have had an experience with Chinedu Okoli or a similar experience with another man — share your story in the comments. You don’t have to share your name. You can simply say, “Me too.”

I am not ashamed of loving.
I am not ashamed of trusting.
But I will never again tolerate threats.

💥 Stay Tuned

There is more to come. More details. More receipts. More healing.

The world will be my witness.


UPDATE - August 5, 


Today I received a disturbing email from my bank with a password reset link — a request I did not make. Shortly after, I was sent a complaint reference number tied to that same account. The only reason a complaint would be triggered is if someone tried and failed to get in.

As I scrolled further down my inbox, I saw it.

An email from “flavourconnect managemen” with the subject: Hello.

Interesting. I thought you didn’t do email, Chinedu.
Yet here you are — sliding into my inbox after everything you’ve already done.

I didn’t open it. I don’t need to. I already know.

I filed a formal complaint with my bank. I told them that no one is authorized to access my account but me — and only from my own verified email. I made it clear that someone is posing as me or trying to manipulate access under false pretenses.

And Chinedu?
I know that was you.

Don’t think silence will keep you safe.
I see you.
The ancestors see you.
The world will too.






Flavour Series in order of how they were  Posted

Intermission: the Women of Flavour: A Spiritual Reading Between Chapters

The World Will Be My Witness: My Experience With Flavour

Nigerian Scammers Poising As Nigerian Musician Flavour

Love Bombed, Then Billed

THE FN card- How It Started

After The Goodbye

Love To See You

Visitors Card

The Promises of Love

When The Fantasy Collapsed 

Thursday, July 24, 2025

Love Bombed, Then Billed: A Timeline of Scammer Tactics

                            

                           By D.M


Nigerian Artist, Flavour made me feel chosen. Like I was the one he’d been searching for. Every call, every message, every soft word felt like destiny unfolding. But behind the love-bombing was a carefully crafted web of emotional manipulation, timed requests, and rehearsed apologies. I didn’t realize then that each “I miss you” would be followed by “Can you help me with something?” This is how it started, and how it slowly broke me down. These are the receipts. The timeline. The truth.


        Dowsing Rod Session May 2025
Scams, Online Behavior & Investigations

• Is he aware scammers use his identity? Yes

• Did he help or condone those sites? Yes

He knows about the scammers.  He knows about the sites? Yes

• Has he orchestrated how they’re set up? Yes

So, he helped the scammers set up sites? Yes
Him saying he doesn't  know is a lie? Yes
He's aware  of everything that's happening? Yes

• Has he personally used fake pages to talk to women? Yes

• To ask for money? Yes

So. it because he's low on it? Yes
He's low on it because he hadn't made an album  in years? No
Is there another reason why he's low in it? Yes
He's low on money? Yes
And that's why he's scamming? Yes

• Is he currently scamming women for money? Yes

So, he uses these sites  to talk to women? Yes
The video he made in  Paris, was that a lie? Yes
All of what he said from Paris was a lie? Yes

• Does he do it to supplement income because of poor management deals? Yes

• Has he ever physically met any of these women? No

• Have women paid to fly him out to meet them? No

Has he asked for money to go out and meet  the women? Yes


Pendulum Reading May 5, 2025


Is Flavour create a network of scammers? N Is he paying the scammer? N

Is he taking a portion of the money from the scammers? N

Is he talking to these women scamming them? Y

Right now as I talk to you is he scamming a woman out her money? N

Are the people running his verified social media pages scamming women? Y

If so is he aware of it? Y

Did he create the imposter pages on social media? N

The men who are scamming these women. Have they ever met Chinedu? N

Is he asking for money online from women? Y

He goes online and still gets women to send him money? Yes

Does he do it because he knows he can? Y

June 20, 2025 Dowsing Rod Session

Did he participate in his  Circle group today? Yes

Which means he scammed some woman out some money? Yes

Does he participate in the  Circle group often? Yes

Often meaning the whole week? Yes 


Dowsing Rod Session July 20. 2025

On March 30, 2025, when Flavour did that PSA in Paris on him never reaching out to women to 'chat them up' or to 'ask for money' was that true? No

So he lied to the people? Yes

Does Flavour have any reason to scam women? No

You say he has done it?  Yes     

  Is he doing it for fun? Yes Is he CURRENTLY, AS OF JULY 20, 2025, scamming women out of their money? Yes

Is Flavour, CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 25, 2025, going into women's dm's to talk to them and then lead them onto Whatsapp? Yes

Flavour has a new group on Whatsapp ( The name I will not hep draw attention too)? Yes

Is this new group he formed personally? Fast Yes

Was this new group formed to bring women to him instead of going through their dm's? Yes

Is he CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 20, 2025,having private conversations with any of the women who have joined the page? Yes

Has Flavour asked any of the women he is currently speaking with privately from that group for money? Yes

How many women is he speaking with currently from that group privately? Yes

5? No
10?  No
11? Yes
15? No

Have any of them given him money? Yes

Has he ever reported the scammers? No

Has he handed any of the women in this group off to impersonators? No

Does Flavour in any way silently approve of what's being done with his name and image? Yes

Is he truly upset by what's happening? No

Is he truly confused by what's happening? No

When women reach out to say I was scammed by someone impersonating you, is his concern really genuine and heart felt? Slow No

Does he feel any remorse for the women who are being scammed? No

The video that was posted online with him in a room full of men and a guy was on the keyboard.  Are the men in that room part of the scamming network? Yes

When I was with him he told me he reported the impersonators to the EFCC? Yes     

 Did he actually report the impersonators to the EFCC? No

Is the agency investigating the scamming done in his name and image? Yes

Flavour let this grow into a network,  because he owed people? Yes

So others could eat off of using his name?  Yes This was intentionally set up? Yes 
  

The Rest of Session is Available Here


Dowsing Rod Session May 5, 2025

Is he coming to Detroit in August for his concert? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No )

Will I see him before his concert? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No )

Will I be able to spend time with him before he leaves Detroit in August? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No)

This part was included because the Visitirs card which was replaced by the nowVIP Card is used in order to meet Flavour.




Dowsing Rod Session June 23, 2025

Back to why he connected me.  Initially I did a reading that he was not going to be performing at the Afrofuture Festival in Detroit in August. Is that still true? Yes

So why would he ask me in text yesterday if I was coming over.  Is he coming? Slow yes

Was he initially ever to come to Detroit? No

Is he performing that Sunday he comes? No

So, did he change his mind about coming? Yes

Are there other women here in Detroit he's trying to physically meet that day? Yes

Did they buy the vip card? Yes Is it a lot of women? Yes

How many? 30 
So 30 exactly?

Yes. So 30 women from Detroit have bought vip cards? Yes

Are they from the Whatsapp group? Yes

Will he honor their VIP card for a year like he says? No

Is he trying to be intimate with them that day? No

So he's going to take pictures and move them on that day? Yes

Will he converse with any of them? No

At other artist meet and greets do you have to pay for them? Yes

His VIP card is not pushed solely for meet and greets? No

Will we physically meet in public when he comes? Yes

If so will he speak? Yes

Will his security and management let him get near me? No

If I show the Visitors card will they let it happen? Yes

Is he the only African musician you have to purchase a card from in order to meet physically in person? Yes

A real relationship with any artist would they find ways for you to be with them behind the scenes without paying ? Yes

Because they view you as their woman? Yes

And only you would have a perk like that? Yes

Chinedu does it because he has many women? Yes

It's a transactional operation? Yes

You can talk to him, take pictures and then he's gone? Yes

Is he angry with me? Yes

Because I didn't buy the vip card? Yes

Because I broke up with him? Yes

Does he hold any type of emotional care towards me? Yes

But he's still playing manipulative games? Yes