Love to See You in Person: The Manipulation Behind the Visit That Never Happened

                                  

                     By Damali M. 

After introducing his daughter and pushing the Visitors card, Chinedu quickly shifted into a new phase of emotional manipulation, this time, wrapped in promises of travel, studio setbacks, and his desire to finally meet me in person. It all sounded promising, but the undercurrent was always the same: another request, another excuse, another delay.

Love Bombed, Then Billed: A Timeline of Scammer Tactics

                            

                           By D.M

Nigerian Artist, Flavour made me feel chosen. Like I was the one he’d been searching for. Every call, every message, every soft word felt like destiny unfolding. But behind the love-bombing was a carefully crafted web of emotional manipulation, timed requests, and rehearsed apologies. I didn’t realize then that each “I miss you” would be followed by “Can you help me with something?” This is how it started, and how it slowly broke me down. These are the receipts. The timeline. The truth.

        Dowsing Rod Session May 2025
Scams, Online Behavior & Investigations

• Is he aware scammers use his identity? Yes

• Did he help or condone those sites? Yes

He knows about the scammers.  He knows about the sites? Yes

• Has he orchestrated how they’re set up? Yes

So, he helped the scammers set up sites? Yes
Him saying he doesn't  know is a lie? Yes
He's aware  of everything that's happening? Yes

• Has he personally used fake pages to talk to women? Yes

• To ask for money? Yes

So. it because he's low on it? Yes
He's low on it because he hadn't made an album  in years? No
Is there another reason why he's low in it? Yes
He's low on money? Yes
And that's why he's scamming? Yes

• Is he currently scamming women for money? Yes

So, he uses these sites  to talk to women? Yes
The video he made in  Paris, was that a lie? Yes
All of what he said from Paris was a lie? Yes

• Does he do it to supplement income because of poor management deals? Yes

• Has he ever physically met any of these women? No

• Have women paid to fly him out to meet them? No

Has he asked for money to go out and meet  the women? Yes

Pendulum Reading May 5, 2025


Is Flavour create a network of scammers? N Is he paying the scammer? N

Is he taking a portion of the money from the scammers? N

Is he talking to these women scamming them? Y

Right now as I talk to you is he scamming a woman out her money? N

Are the people running his verified social media pages scamming women? Y

If so is he aware of it? Y

Did he create the imposter pages on social media? N

The men who are scamming these women. Have they ever met Chinedu? N

Is he asking for money online from women? Y

He goes online and still gets women to send him money? Yes

Does he do it because he knows he can? Y

June 20, 2025 Dowsing Rod Session

Did he participate in his  Circle group today? Yes

Which means he scammed some woman out some money? Yes

Does he participate in the  Circle group often? Yes

Often meaning the whole week? Yes 

Dowsing Rod Session July 20. 2025

On March 30, 2025, when Flavour did that PSA in Paris on him never reaching out to women to 'chat them up' or to 'ask for money' was that true? No

So he lied to the people? Yes

Does Flavour have any reason to scam women? No

You say he has done it?  Yes     

  Is he doing it for fun? Yes Is he CURRENTLY, AS OF JULY 20, 2025, scamming women out of their money? Yes

Is Flavour, CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 25, 2025, going into women's dm's to talk to them and then lead them onto Whatsapp? Yes

Flavour has a new group on Whatsapp ( The name I will not hep draw attention too)? Yes

Is this new group he formed personally? Fast Yes

Was this new group formed to bring women to him instead of going through their dm's? Yes

Is he CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 20, 2025,having private conversations with any of the women who have joined the page? Yes

Has Flavour asked any of the women he is currently speaking with privately from that group for money? Yes

How many women is he speaking with currently from that group privately? Yes

5? No
10?  No
11? Yes
15? No

Have any of them given him money? Yes

Has he ever reported the scammers? No

Has he handed any of the women in this group off to impersonators? No

Does Flavour in any way silently approve of what's being done with his name and image? Yes

Is he truly upset by what's happening? No

Is he truly confused by what's happening? No

When women reach out to say I was scammed by someone impersonating you, is his concern really genuine and heart felt? Slow No

Does he feel any remorse for the women who are being scammed? No

The video that was posted online with him in a room full of men and a guy was on the keyboard.  Are the men in that room part of the scamming network? Yes

When I was with him he told me he reported the impersonators to the EFCC? Yes     

 Did he actually report the impersonators to the EFCC? No

Is the agency investigating the scamming done in his name and image? Yes

Flavour let this grow into a network,  because he owed people? Yes

So others could eat off of using his name?  Yes This was intentionally set up? Yes 
  

The Rest of Session is Available Here

Dowsing Rod Session May 5, 2025

Is he coming to Detroit in August for his concert? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No )

Will I see him before his concert? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No )

Will I be able to spend time with him before he leaves Detroit in August? Y (When I did this in March,as of 5/23/25 is No)

This part was included because the Visitirs card which was replaced by the nowVIP Card is used in order to meet Flavour.

Dowsing Rod Session June 23, 2025

Back to why he connected me.  Initially I did a reading that he was not going to be performing at the Afrofuture Festival in Detroit in August. Is that still true? Yes

So why would he ask me in text yesterday if I was coming over.  Is he coming? Slow yes

Was he initially ever to come to Detroit? No

Is he performing that Sunday he comes? No

So, did he change his mind about coming? Yes

Are there other women here in Detroit he's trying to physically meet that day? Yes

Did they buy the vip card? Yes Is it a lot of women? Yes

How many? 30 
So 30 exactly?

Yes. So 30 women from Detroit have bought vip cards? Yes

Are they from the Whatsapp group? Yes

Will he honor their VIP card for a year like he says? No

Is he trying to be intimate with them that day? No

So he's going to take pictures and move them on that day? Yes

Will he converse with any of them? No

At other artist meet and greets do you have to pay for them? Yes

His VIP card is not pushed solely for meet and greets? No

Will we physically meet in public when he comes? Yes

If so will he speak? Yes

Will his security and management let him get near me? No

If I show the Visitors card will they let it happen? Yes

Is he the only African musician you have to purchase a card from in order to meet physically in person? Yes

A real relationship with any artist would they find ways for you to be with them behind the scenes without paying ? Yes

Because they view you as their woman? Yes

And only you would have a perk like that? Yes

Chinedu does it because he has many women? Yes

It's a transactional operation? Yes

You can talk to him, take pictures and then he's gone? Yes

Is he angry with me? Yes

Because I didn't buy the vip card? Yes

Because I broke up with him? Yes

Does he hold any type of emotional care towards me? Yes

But he's still playing manipulative games? Yes

Nigerian Scammers Poising As Nigerian Musician Flavour

 

                                 

                                 By D.M

I met the musician Flavour, a Nigerian artist, online through TikTok on January 5, 2025.  This is were we talked for a few days before I joined him on Whatsapp.

As time went on I slowly started to hear his name being connected to women being scammed.  At yhe time he never requested anything from me.  By the end of February is when he pulled me in. How his manager saying his account was locked and he needed to pay Muna's school fees.  It wasn't much, but this wouldn't be the last time that I was asked to help 'support '. 

While in Paris he sent me pictures of him in the studio working on his music.  Not once did he say he was making a PSA. He sent me the video of him in his bed giving the first  announcement to be careful of the scammers.  Of it not bring him, but he didn't tell me about this one on March 30, 2025. I didn't find out about it until I went on Facebook that night and in my reels was him. I listened for a minute before making my way to Facebook.

As I listened to this fifteen minute video my heart broke and my jaw dropped.  When he spoke the words, ' Flavour would not reach out to chat you up' and ' I won't ask you for money'. I'm thinking, ' but you're lying.

The next day while at work, about 7:35am, he reached out, but the energy was off. I said to him, ' I say the video from Paris.'  He says, ' I'm sorry. I meant to tell you about that.  What did you think.'
I told him that I understood why he did it.  I did. It was for image. He's big on what he looks like in the public view.  He wasn't going to confess anything.  It was all in his body language for me. That said it all.

I downloaded his video onto my TikTok page and the comments that I read just absolutely disrupted my spirit that I turned the comments off.   Women saying he was lying and if he didn't stop they would reopen the investigation on him. There were those who applauded him going online and finally addressing all the noise around impersonators scamming in his name.  It was a half divide in responses.

He would tell me how much this bothered him and he didn't know what was going wrong. I advised him but he didn't listen . Well, he did, but in the end he did what he was going to do.

All he would tell me was if they reach out block and report them. That he went to the EFCC and there's an investigation going.  This is what he told me

This reading was done on different occasions to track if anything changed.  It was not done in revenge, but done because spirit asked. This is so women can be protected and not fall into the trap. Just block them all that say they are Flavour aka Chinedu Okoli. 


Pendulum Reading May 5, 2025


Is Flavour create a network of scammers? N

Is he paying the scammer? N

Is he taking a portion of the money from the scammers? N

Is he talking to these women scamming them? Y

Right now as I talk to you is he scamming a woman out her money? N


Are the people running his verified social media pages scamming women? Y

If so is he aware of it? Y

Did he create the imposter pages on social media? N

The men who are scamming these women. Have they ever met Chinedu? N

Is he asking for money online from women? Y


He goes online and still gets women to send him money? Yes

Does he do it because he knows he can? Y



June 20, 2025 Dowsing Rod Session

Did he participate in his Inner Circle group today? Yes
Which means he scammed some woman out some money? Yes
Does he participate in the Inner Circle group often? Yes
Often meaning the whole week? Yes


This Dowsing Rod session was done to check in on if anything changed in the spirit realm with the questions that were presented before concerning the scamming done in Flavours name.  This us to tie it all together.

These answers do not come from me. They are being given by the Ancestors on thus day of July 20, 2025.  If you got a problem with the answers take it to them. I'm the messenger.

Was I in a relationship with the musician Flavour aka Chinedu Okoli? Yes

Did we meet in January of 2025 on TikTok? Yes

Did he dm me on TikTok? Yes

Did I ever pursue Flavour? Yes

Did he request to move the conversation off TikTok onto Whatsapp because the platform was encrypted? Yes

So his management couldn't read the messages? Yes

Did I break up with Flavour because of his manipulative,  lying ways? Yes

Is this session done out malice on my behalf? No

Did I even want to do this session on the scammers? No

This is by your request (ancestors)? Yes

Is there something you need to show? Yes

Can we start? Yes

Are there imposters online using the name Flavour or Chinedu Okoli, in any form,  online to scam women? Yes

Are they on TikTok? Yes

Instagram? Yes

Facebook? Yes

Threads? Yes

Twitter ( X)? Yed

Which one of these platforms has the biggest presence of imposters for Flavour?

TikTok? No

Instagram? No

Facebook? No

Threads? No

Twitter ( X)? Yes

Is the REAL Flavour on all of these platforms?  Yes

Does the REAL Flavour personally run any of the platforms he on? Yes

Does he visit the platforms to post? Yes

Are there other handles Flavour uses on TikTok besides Flavour if Africa? Yes

How many other handles is he using on TikTok?
2? No

5? Yes

How many on Instagram?
2? Yes

How many on Facebook?
2? Yes

How many handles does he use on Thread?
2? No

3? No

4? No

5? Yes


How many handles does he use on X?
2? Yes

Does he hire people to run and post on the platforms? Yes

Has Flavour EVER came to a platform and dm'd a woman he did not know? Yes

Does he do this all the time? No

Only when he's interested in a woman? Yes

Has he EVER chatted with a woman and then asked her to join him on Whatsapp to talk privately? Yes

Has Flavour EVER starting talking with a woman and then pushed her off on an imposter? No

Flavour has full knowledge of the imposters out here using his name and image to scam women? Yes

Are women being scammed mostly from the United States? Yes

Are other women from other countries being scammed as well? Yes

Was Flavour aware of the scammers when the number of them rose to 15? Yes

Did he proceed to do anything about it? No

Total. How many scammers are online using Flavours name and likeness as of July 20, 2025?

Less than 50? No

More than 100? No

More than 160? No

More than 200? No

Is it 215? Yes

Is it exactly 215? Yes

The scammers pretending to be Flavour. Are they a network of individuals? Yes

Is Flavour apart of this network scamming women? Yes

Is Flavour the head of the operation? Fast Yes

Has the REAL Flavour EVER asked any woman online through his Whatsapp page for money? Yes

When told about the scammers and the women who have come forth to say they were scammed by Flavour.   Were these women telling the truth? Fast Yes

Were all the women who've been scammed, scammed by the REAL Flavour? No

Has Flavour EVER talked with fans online to find out how they are receiving his music? Yes

Has Flavour EVER continued conversations with fans that turned into him asking for money? Yes

On March 30, 2025, when Flavour did that PSA in Paris on him never reaching out to women to 'chat them up' or to 'ask for money' was that true? No

So he lied to the people? Yes

Does Flavour have any reason to scam women? No

You say he has done it?  Yes     

Is he doing it for fun? Yes

Is he CURRENTLY, AS OF JULY 20, 2025, scamming women out of their money? Yes

Is Flavour, CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 25, 2025, going into women's dm's to talk to them and then lead them onto Whatsapp? Yes

Flavour has a new group on Whatsapp ( The name I will not hep draw attention too)? Yes

Is this new group he formed personally? Fast Yes

Was this new group formed to bring women to him instead of going through their dm's? Yes

Is he CURRENTLY AS OF JULY 20, 2025,having private conversations with any of the women who have joined the page? Yes

Has Flavour asked any of the women he is currently speaking with privately from that group for money? Yes

How many women is he speaking with currently from that group privately? Yes

5? No

10?  No

11? Yes

15? No

Have any of them given him money? Yes

Has he ever reported the scammers? No

Has he handed any of the women in this group off to impersonators? No

Does Flavour in any way silently approve of what's being done with his name and image? Yes

Is he truly upset by what's happening? No

Is he truly confused by what's happening? No

When women reach out to say I was scammed by someone impersonating you, is his concern really genuine and heart felt? Slow No

Does he feel any remorse for the women who are being scammed? No

The video that was posted online with him in a room full of men and a guy was on the keyboard.  Are the men in that room part of the scamming network? Yes

When I was with him he told me he reported the impersonators to the EFCC? Yes       

Did he actually report the impersonators to the EFCC? No

Is the agency investigating the scamming done in his name and image? Yes

Flavour let this grow into a network,  because he owed people? Yes

So others could eat off of using his name?  Yes

This was intentionally set up? Yes



🌀 Conclusion:

I didn’t want to tell this story. Not because I was afraid—but because I hoped he would change. I hoped what I saw in the spirit would be proven wrong in the physical. I gave love. I gave trust. And I gave space to grow. But what I cannot give is silence when Spirit commands me to speak.

I’m not here to convince you. I’m here to witness. To speak the truth as it’s been revealed to me—through lived experience and ancestral confirmation. I am not the only woman impacted. I won’t be the last unless the truth is laid bare.

To those who have been deceived, manipulated, or made to feel ashamed: You are not alone. This post is not about revenge. It’s about revelation. It’s about spiritual accountability.

If you're reading this and it resonates, may it offer clarity. May it help you step out of any illusion. And if you ever questioned your intuition, know this: You were never crazy. You were just early.

I am a messenger. I am a witness.
And this story now belongs to the collective.

Spiritual Confirmation: A July 21, 2025 Rod Session

As more videos surfaced—including the recent “Whose Your Flavour” TikTok platform appearance—I felt prompted by Spirit to seek further clarity. The following dowsing rod session was conducted to discern the truth behind the new wave of impersonation and live appearances. These are not assumptions. These responses were given directly through spiritual tools I use regularly for guidance and truth. As with all messages I share, I do so as a messenger—nothing more, nothing less.

When Flavour goes live on his platform or other platforms like, Whose Your Flavour, is he waiting for my energy to show up? Yes

Is my intuition off for Feeling this way? No

His handle, nightflavour_6499,  I blocked on tiktok. Can he view my page? Yes

Can he view things I post in my reels or stories? YES

I only heard the clips that were posted on Whose Your Flavour tiktok page.  So I'm only going by that right now until I see the full video or the ancestors lead me in a direction to ask more questions.

The man who came on the TikTok platform today, July, 21, 2025, used the handle name Flavour of Africa. Was this the REAL Flavour that was on the call? No

This Flavour of Africa that came on the Who Is Your Flavour platform the same Flavour with the verified account on TikTok? No

Does Flavour have a handle on TikTok. Flavour of Aftica? Quick Yes

Was the person on the call sent by the REAL Flavour? Yes

So. The real Flavour. Chinedu Okoli, sent this man to talk for him as him,? Yes

Was Chinedu sitting in the room with this man, as he talked on the Who Is Your Flavour platform? Yes

Is the REAL Flavour in London today, July  21, 2025?  No

Was the REAL Flavour in London on July 20, 2025? Yes

Did the REAL Flavour attend a boxing match in  Dubai, July 20, 2025? Yes

He traveled from Dubai to London After the fight? Yes

Did he meet his favorite boxer Lenox Lewis?  Yes

Did he receive signed boxing gloves that day? Yes

Did the REAL Flavour  send this other person that  was on the platform, to take his place?  Yes

Did someone in Flavour's camp send this person? Yes

Was it Flavour? Yes

Is Flavour truly working with the EFCC and FBI to stop the scammers as this Flavour of Africa on the platform mentioned today? Yes

So did he start today, July 21, 2025? Yes

So, today he officially reported to the EFCC and FBI to stop scammers? Yes

So, when I was talking to him and he told me he was working with the EFCC and FBI he was lying? Yes

Before going to the EFCC and FBI did  the REAL Flavour really want these scammers to be blocked? No

What changed? Did one of these agencies say they were watching Chinedu? Yes

So, if their watching Chinedu,  they have a file on him? Yes

Did the Flavour of Africa give a way to the audience listening on how to report these impersonators? No

Was the presence of this Flavour of Africa on the platform,  just to pacify the women scammed? Yes

Giving them false hope something is happening when it's not? Yes

Did this Flavour of Africa promote his new album coming out? No

Did the women on that live believe what this Flavour of Africa had to say? No

To Be Continued. Here  

☆☆ Update:

September 4, 2025

I was on social media and came upon a video of a woman who has come forward describing her experience with scammers connected to Flavour. In her testimony, she shares how she had contact with Flavour on 3 separate occasions.  She confronted her imposter.

 This echoes the same patterns many of us have lived through, staged handoffs, recycled stories, and hidden networks pulling strings. It shows that Flavour does have knowledge of what's going on. 

If he is allegedly using boys from his orphanage to be spart of the scamming , their voices may one day reveal the truth. For now, this account stands as another piece in the larger puzzle, receipts that show the player is getting played. 

                         

Every testimony adds to the larger truth. These stories aren’t isolated, they reveal a pattern of deception, silence, and recycled facades. As more voices step forward, the walls of secrecy weaken. This blog will remain an archive, a place where the truth is documented and preserved, piece by piece, until the full picture can no longer be denied.

            

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My latest reading shook me. Spirit is still speaking

Untangling the Web: A Spiritual Reading on the Women Linked to Flavour

                                  

                                               

           Would you still trust a man with multiple 

            baby mama's and secret soul ties, even

            if looked like this?

At first, I wasn’t ready for this post to be seen. It carried a weight I was still processing. But time has a way of preparing us to share what once felt too raw.
Now it’s live on Substack, and without any promotion, it’s already being seen and shared.
Maybe that’s the sign it was finally time.
You can read the full piece below.

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Flavour Series in order of how they were  Posted

Intermission: the Women of Flavour: A Spiritual Reading Between Chapters

The World Will Be My Witness: My Experience With Flavour

Flavour’s Album Timeline 
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Nigerian Scammers Poising As Nigerian Musician Flavour

Love Bombed, Then Billed

The FN card- How It Started

After The Goodbye

The Introduction & The Card Switch: Part Two The Visitors Card

Love To See You

VIP Card

The Performance of Love

When The Fantasy Collapsed 

The Player Getting Played

The $3M Silence: Why Chinedu's Biopic Disappeared

Update on Flavour’s New Album