The Perspective of Relationships From Grown Men

 

                                     

Photo by Andres Ayrton

  I admit I watch a ĺot of YouTube.  It's mostly for movies,  and the video creators I subscribe  too. But what I notice coming through my algorithm of something I never searched for was arguments, debates and match making with people of color.  

 I scrolled pass these videos until I got nosy, and started looking at them to see what they were all about.  They disturbed my spirit.

I've said and will continue to say that we need each other.  These relationship videos are centered around people who have begun to do their own personal healing giving other people advise on how to date. What type of person to be with or not be with. 

It's all about connection. Going deeper than surface level to find the person your trying to find. Because when you do go surface level andcboth of you can be honest and transparent you can heal through each other. If that makes sense. It starts with one doing the initial work. Growing that relationship in a way that works for the both of you.  

You're supposed to be loving and growing together. As a unit.  You will always be growing and developing personally,  but even in that you and your partner should always be developing together. 

I had a hard time uploading the full video called, The Feminine Ear: The Men Are Talking.

Robin Mason got a group of men together to express honestly and with transparency their views on relationships. It was done with class, and the men elegantly expressed their views. 

Then at the twenty minute mark a man by the name of Dr. Bobby Price said these words that summed what we are witnessing on the internet very well.

The conversations spilling off the internet into real life are childish. They have no substance. How can you vet someone you never asked a real question? Dr. Price said it best, and what happened in that room after is proof that men are capable of going deeper when someone leads them there.

And it was at that point that the conversation became more richer, genuine, insightful, honest and transparent.  

This following video is just a snippet of the full video that is linked under the video.  I hope you enjoy this grown conversation as much as I did. 

                  

The Feminine Ear: The Men Are Talking (Full video)